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The Fundamental Science of Love! How do Men and Women Experience and Express Love Differently? Why Does Everyone Crave for Love and Yet Find Love Temporary, Delusional, and Elusive?

A man is holding a girl in his arms in the article The Fundamental Science of Love in Lyfas website.

K. Why men can love far more than women?

Let’s recall how many entities and people this article has hurt so far

Finally something for the interest of the gender warriors, equality warriors, and other warriors. Feminists are already on their toes with breast-feeding stuff you know. Working women have got their agenda for protest “This article is anti-working female. How can we breastfeed?” The Youtubers are already furious. The wedding industry may already be biting its nails. The least bothered would be men so far because we know we are screwed the day we first discovered that no one other than our mothers even knows that we exist.

The child package milk industry, dating apps, and coaches wouldn’t be too happy either. I am sure love story writers have no problem, as no one reads stories these days anyway. Movie makers wouldn’t mind either because there is no love in the movies these days.

I am sure gay men and so-called MGTOW would be happy with the article, “fuck, we were right, we know that females were not worthy of our time.” The aerospace travel industry may be furious as passport bros may stop spending money going to other countries looking for something that is bound to fail.

Young boys who just got a dream job, and are now confident of a good life henceforth will use their college day experience to not pay attention to the article and remain in dreams. Instagrammers may consider paying some money as this is probably the only internet article that does not blame Instagram for failed marriages and relationships.

Do not forget the Indian Gynochologists who have produced a generation of loveless lives with C-sections. (you can squarely blame your negative relatives for putting the mother into so much anxiety of needing a C-section).

YouTube Alpha, Beta, Gamma, Sigma, Delta, and oh yeah baby, the all cool “High-Value Male” coaches and narratives may be already hating this article and me.

But, and it is a big but(not the big butt ok?) I am not satisfied by till I irritate the gender warriors. So gender warriors here is your dose.

It’s science, men can experience love more than women but women can both give and take more love than men(🙈)

Evolutionarily men have gone out to hunt every day, and hunting caused them to encounter death on a daily basis. Then there were wars and natural calamities like the ice age. So, when men came back to the cave in the evening, seeing the tribe and the family, they would get a sense of life.

The reason humans outcompeted all other highly conscious species, including Neanderthals who had larger brains as well as mass, is one simple difference. Human males protected the females and went hunting themselves. So no homosepien female fossils showed any injuries, whereas Neanderthal females had significant injuries in their body like males. Even in other conscious species like Lions, lionesses do the majority of the hunting in the pride.

So, humanity survived because men protected women from danger, but as a downside love reduced in females, and increased in males. But love’s experience isn’t complete without breastfeeding. Remember?

So females are the best producers as well as consumers of love, but even after giving more love, and receiving more love, they can’t experience love even a fraction of the love a man can experience.🤣

So men experinces more love, and so are more jealous of losing love, whereas female give and receive more love and are envious of the men who experinces more love than them.
MEN 1
WOMEN 0🙈

Stories Attachment and Oxytocin

As love is in reality a hormonal reset, which is super important for the awareness of life itself, as love is reduced in females, another hormone named Oxytocin increases. This is the attachment hormone.
So the females would attach to the male psychophysiology through Oxytocin, and mirroring, and therefore whenever males went out hunting, their fear of death would be experienced by the females from miles away. When the males were late, and many times they did not return, the female fear of death would increase.

Remember, Oxytocin also binds mother and child during breast-feeding. And so when the females would see their men in the evening, they would get the exact same feeling as seeing their children alive, and males would feel childish. This is the key bonding between the males and females.

A man and a female(girl, woman) love is that of a Mother’s physiology of the woman and the child’s physiology of the man. Mother has many children, but a child has only one mother. Guess who will love more?

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