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Kindness is a Virtue
Kindness is not merely an expression of empathy, but rather a virtue.
Virtue=Wisdom+Power;
Unless you have acquired knowledge, practiced skills, used the knowledge with skills to acquire power, and used the power with wisdom to fight against evil to obtain an experience, and have derived emotion out of the experience, you can not be virtuous and therefore can’t be kind.
Because acquiring virtue is real hard work, most people just fake kindness with good acting, exactly the way one fakes a smile on the day of the marriage reception, seeing the random people whom the couple would never see again in their life.
Why do people judge kindness as a weakness?
The real powerful people are just kind and nice to others. They use their power to fight greater battles against the systems and the devils.
‘Being powerful is like being a lady. If you have to tell people you are, you aren’t.’
Margaret Thatcher, ex British Prime minister
Powerful people love to be around people, helping them, and supporting them. They love to be loved and loved.
However, acquiring power is really hard. So, so most want to show that they are powerful, and therefore act tough! Now, the world sees so many “perceived tough” guys that they soon make the first impression about kind-hearted people that they are weak.
It is this perception that leads people to fancy manipulating you. Most average people do not have the mental depth to analyze a frame or scene critically enough.
How shortcut judgment makes people hate you?
So, when they actually see your other side, and when they are you taking on issues, they have a complete cognitive dissonance. It’s like a whole new you are dealing with them. They feel frustrated that they made a wrong perception about you. Frustration results in anger. They become angry with themselves. However, a perspective and perception-driven brain are disconnected from the self, and they end up directing the anger outward, towards you, rather than utilizing the same to reflect on the self and improve.
How to handle this problem of people’s perception change?
When you stand by some values and people challenge them, handle the situation tough. Not only that but also do make sure that others see how you handle the situation. It gives a message that you are not an easy pushover.
People fearing you at times is much better than people loving you because love is often misinterpreted as weakness.
Niccolò Machiavelli, 15th century Florantine Political Writer of “The Prince”
Focus on acquiring virtue rather than collecting average people’s foolish perceptions. People suffer because they choose to remain dumb. Therefore, those who see or think that you are weak, are the suffering shortcut brains, who create a self-perception that they are empathetic, the self-proclaimed empaths.
The wisdom is, never to pay the price of others’ choices. Never be kind to a dumb and try to save them from misery;
Example of Virtue
You will get surprised, shocked, and enthralled by the journey of discovery of true masculinity.
When you have to acquire wisdom about power and grow in life, read Intimacy Laws.
But, when someone asks a suggestion about which book to read, always advise an easy thing.
The shortcut brains who want to feel that they are learning kindness will read:
And those of you with a growth mindset will understand that knowledge doesn’t come without emotions. And that Lyfas gives real knowledge with real emotions, not just “10 points to fake kindness” and will become a member to make Lyfas as part of their growth story
The complaining brains will walk out of this article with resentment because they don’t want to be kind, but seek validations that they are really kind.
Wisdom for readers with growth mindset
Misery comes with dumbness, dumbness doesn’t come with misery;
Emotions are to be felt; feelings can’t become emotions;
Knowledge is a painfully long journey,
validation causes pain, feeling pain is not a journey,
Shortcutists get fucked by life; life doesn’t fuck in shortcuts;
Kindness comes with power, power doesn’t come with kindness;
Powerful people do not let others to take advantage of them,
Those who lets others to crush them are not kind to themselves,
One who is not kind to self, can’t be kind to
So, the next time a powerless person, suffering in misery, a shortcut brain of a self-proclaimed empath tries to preach your kindness:
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