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Kindness is an Expression of Empathy
The father of the boy in the story is empathetic. He knows that his son needs to learn to the bike of his own and fish on his own for him to have a girl and to be able to take responsibility for the girl. So the father would be kind, tough, hard, and soft based on the situation, with a final goal to make his son become a man.
Because kindness is an expression of empathy, empathy is the intelligence of decoding emotions, and emotion is a story of life, and because multiple stories are connected, to decode kindness one needs to have high intelligence, knowledge, memory, analytical skills, and because all of these take decades to develop, an average person sees a scene or frame, and makes a judgement about kindness.
Average people are Perception-driven and not Intelligent and Empathetic
In this frame, a girl is making a perception of kindness. Because, she hasn’t read this article, and no one has told her accurately what is kindness. The other girl is making a perception about the guy on the left because he is beating a rather helpless and nice guy.
Who is nice here you think?
Open this box to know the real story behind the beating
In reality, the perceived nice boy is a womanizer, a casanova, who flirts around with girls. His niceness and kindness is an acting, good acting to deceive average people.
The complete story
The real story
Do you now understand what is the problem with common people, shortcut brains, and perception? All right, now let us see what is Kindness.