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H. How to overcome the protagonist syndrome?
All your life from childhood upto this point, it has been about you, the way you feel and see the world, your aspirations, your desires, your feelings, your stories, your achievements, your humiliations, your struggles, your battles, and you the larger than life protagonist navigating through life with other tiny little creatures called people.
Each of these “people” also live their story and are protagonists in their story. You are not interacting with the world. Your story is interacting with other stories. People are not interacting with each other, their stories are. You and the people around you are not living reality and life, but living your stories.
The good thing about the fantasy world is that you can change it in any which way you want. So you will feel bad about a person, and then you will feel bad about yourself for feeling bad about a person, and then you will feel good that you could feel bad about feeling bad about a person. This is a vicious prison of story. This is a prison of story which is nothing but a house of cards, each card being those tiny little characters, weakly placed one over the other.
Even if reality breaks this castle, you will still be left with thousands of cards and will remain busy placing the cards back into the house of cards again. But when the house falls, and it will fall occasionally when the reality will be far far away from your story, you will realize how lonely you are, surrounded by dead small tiny cards.
You would want to run away, as you see your freedom from the story. But you can’t. All these cards will draw your attention. You will become sad as you continue to run past the cards. Finally, you will get tired of running, take a pause, and look back to see the piles of cards.
You will turn back, away from light, picking up one card, organizing it, then the other, and then the other, till the house of cards, the story of your life inside which you lived gets reconstructed again. And you will feel good about creating and getting your life back.
You can’t consciously say what is your age. You are still a child from within because a child lives in stories. Your life has not progressed chronologically but rather has accumulated more cards and toys as events and feelings.
Coming out of this story is like suddenly discovering your childhood self alone in the harsh reality of the world. And the then protagonist will go and rescue the child back into the story.
Do you really want to come out?
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Netaji, the Bhagwan Ji of Faizabad and His Reality
It is now a proven fact that Netaji Subhash Chandra Bose did not die in a plane crash, but lived at least till 1985, here in India, Ayudhya. as a Sadhu who was later called “Gumnami Baba.” What was recovered from his room after his death? Books, and documents.
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