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How Malignant Individualism is Causing a Pathological Loneliness?

What is the difference between selfishness and self-awareness? Why selfishness is longlasting and makes you lonely? Why loneliness is punishing? How to become more self-aware?

The Science behind Malignant Individualism

Oxytocin is our social hormone.

Without intimacy with work, intimacy with friends, parents, children, and intimacy with colleagues, Oxytocin depletes and then finally vanishes.

Oxytocin is fundamental for childbirth. Hence pregnant are(or were) given Oxytocin through IV before delivery. Because there is no Oxytocin now, normal delivery is almost impossible.

Oxytocin modulates Melatonin, which again creates a chain of anti-oxidant networks, besides modulating sleep. So, the body is now exposed to terrible RoS, without protection, and sleep is a thing of the past.

Physiological-Coupling

A female is high on Estrogen(or was), and a man in Testosterone(or was). Man still has far higher Cortisol reserve. When male friends touch each other intimately, they get oxytocin. When a male and female become intimate, the male gets higher parasympathetic from the female, and females get more energy by getting higher sympathetic from men. Besides, the two get elevated Oxytocin.

Current Social Construct

1. Females focus up to the age of 35 on jobs and careers and casual sex, and men seek relationships.
2. Then females want to settle down(81%), but less than 40% of men are ready to emotionally invest(the tables turn).
3. So, people find escapism:-

  • a) Pets
  • b) Creativity(everyone has become a creator now. Creativity as an escape from loneliness is a compulsive pathology and a major psychotic disorder)
  • c) Magical thinking:- I have chosen this loneliness, it makes me feel good. I am God-like(Narcissism doctrine).
  • d) Rituals:- Make tea, watch Netflix, order food, log in to virtual work, slog, end day, order food, Netflix. Phew, no one is needed.
  • e) Disjoincy:- No continuation, no goal, no theme, no connection to self, changing profession, relationship, place, interests, hobbies.

You think soon dust will settle, and you will be in a relationship of life, but alas that never happens because you lost hormones and skills.

After the age of 40

Wait for death, suffer every day, cancer, anxiety, depression, psychotic disorder, insomnia, completely screwed liver, gallbladder, and pancreas.
Write some self-validation posts on social networks about how you are so happy having chosen your slow death.

Having understood what is malignant individualism and why a large proportion of society is suffering from this untreatable cancer, let us understand on the next page what is pathological lonliness and why individualism is leading to loneliness.

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