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The Fall of Relationships in the US
Recently, a Senior US science professor had to include Dating assignments for his students. The young students did not know how to be together, how or why to be with people, and couldn’t tolerate others’ company.
45% of the US population has never had a relationship in their entire life. Friends are declining every day. We have less than 1 friend /individual for the first time in history, and for the majority, it is 0 after 35, besides some virtual “feel-good” relationships.
A vast majority of those who are married or are in some kind of relationship are singles within the relationships.
Malignancy and Individualism
Malignancy
Malignancy is a life-threatening progressive actue disease, that grows within a host body, and grows very fast by consuming the resources of the host body and denying the host body of its resources to slowly put the body starve by death.
Individualism
Individualism is all about “I, me, myself.” Often people misunderstand selfishness from self-awareness and self-esteem. Examples of individualism are:-
- I am Ph.D. and a doctorate in Robotic intelligence.
- I deserve more money than I am making.
- Many less intelligent people are making more money than me.
- My boss is bad, I work so hard, but he never recognizes me.
- My parents did not do their duty well. If they had done their duty well, I wouldn’t have been suffering.
- I am earning good and deserve a good bride/groom.
- I have a car.
- I want to secure a good job.
- I must switch jobs now because I am not getting as much as I deserve.
- My love for my partner is so pure, but my partner doesn’t love me.
- I have an idea that can change the world. VCs will jump for joy when I present them with the idea and they will immediately want to fund me.
- Whatever I am doing, I am doing for my family. I am giving them good life; I am squeezing my blood for them.
- I have given my child the best opportunities possible.
- Please don’t hurt me.
- Respect me.
- Love me.
- Be with me because you will not get another nice person like me.
- I look at myself now and feel proud of the amount of growth I have achieved.
The above lines of thoughts are individualism. Individualism is one where one starts thinking of oneself isolated from the world and considers that he or she is the one who is giving to the world, without the world giving them anything in return. Observe the use of “I”, or “me”, or “”, “myself.”
Malignant Individualism
individualism is thinking about oneself, and deriving a self-perception from the current feelings. For instance, if one is earning more money than his peers at this moment, he would feel proud and more satisfied and would consider himself to be successful and attribute the success to his hard work.
However, when the same person goes to live in a neighborhood where all other neighbors are financially richer than him, then he would feel that if only his parents had given him what he would deserve as a child, then he wouldn’t have been a failure. He too would be as rich as his parents.
One of the hallmarks of individualism is to compare, complain, and criticize, coupled with envy, jealousy, and greed. They become part of the core character, and not just personality, and the thoughts and feelings create a chain of negative thoughts and negative energy that preoccupies the brain all the time.
As the days go by, such thoughts and feelings keep growing and interlinking all the other thoughts and feelings, and the body is denied of the energy, as all the energy is consumed by negative individualism and self-centric thoughts.
We already learned that malignancy is a fast growth of an entity within the body that starves the body of energy and other resources, to finally take down the body, like cancer. As individualism thought+feelings+perception grow, they become a strong mental entity in themselves. And then this entity which is individualism grows out of proportion, slowly but surely, day by day, bit by bit.
On the next page, we shall understand the science behind the increase of this mental faculty of malignant individualism.
