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Why An Average Guy Would Find it Hard to Have a Family and Stable Marriage Today?

A man with a briefcase is looking at his wife in white top and orange gown. The wife is raising left hand in "no" posture. She is also holding a crying son.

A. An Average Female is Better than an Average Male

Today in an average population(average mental strength IQ=100, average physical strength hand grip strength=35kg)

1. Females have better degrees and marks.
2. Females have more energy.
3. Females are much more agreeable and stable employees than males.
4. Females have an edge in several white color entry-level jobs including sales, marketing, HR, and compliance, and hence earn more than average males.
5. Females have better state and legal support for their security.

6. Even a below-average female has far higher human and social skills than above-average men.

7. Females have much higher access to reproduction(choose IVF, choose to be single and yet have a baby as the state wants babies).

B. Child Conditioning

A large number of females between 1960-1990 have gone through severe discrimination in social, political, employment, education, and almost every field, including serious abuse like dowry, marital rape, becoming a maid for inlaws, and sacrificing careers for brothers.

When their girls married, “I won’t let my daughter suffer the way I suffered”, “I will raise my son so that he will be nice.” So, post 1990, aggressive girls and timid boys.

C. What are the only things that females need today that they don’t have?

1. Someone who can take care of their mood. (Ofcourse if a female has to become mother, she has to have extremely high rate of electrochemical reactions and hormone changes, and so mood).

2. Safety:- A female is evolutionary bound to worry, and her brain will create worry from thin air. Feeling safe is key.

3. Meaning of Life:- Females play so many roles that feelings and thoughts from each roles get intermixed and without someone explaining her why she at times feels let down by father, and yet other times misses father, she feels crazy.

4. Sensuality:- Female sexuality is a 24×7 core. A female can have 28 orgasm, whereas after 3rd even a top healthy man will find hard to get up.

5. Story:- No female seek happiness, but stories that have low-high feelings(childbirth is most painful, which also is their biggest satisfaction).

5. Decision Anxiety: Even wearing the size and color of bindi is an anxiety for a female.

D. Fundamental Skills a Man needs to have today

1. Patience:– Can you talk to her for 6 hours daily if needed to help her make sense of her feelings?

2. Suffering:– Men learn by suffering. Have you suffered poverty, hunger, roofless nights, rejections, death, abuse, bully?

3. Strength:– Can you lift 50kg and walk a mile?

4. Tools:– Can you fix households (fan, sink)

5. Energy:– Can you end everyday without any signs of tiredness?

6. Decision:– Can you take decisions and explain her the process from dish to eat, to place to travel, to dress she must wear, to her career, to going and not going to temple? Can you take hard decisions in life, like leaving parents?

Suffer and get wiser, or marry and suffer.

E. Conclusion

In entire animal kingdom, male’s reproductive success is below 15%(One bull for 70 cows, one cock for 28 hens, One male for 10-15 female Gorillas, one male for 9 chimpanjees).

Humans increased the rate to over 70%, not because it was desirable, or natural, but for the availability of labour . Once enough automation is done, this need simply ends.

The average male misery can be best understood from Bee Hive. In the winter, when honey and resources are low, males are thrown out of the hive, and they die. In mating about 20-30 bees attempt to mate the queen bee in mating flight and they die after the mating.

In dogs, you will see the healthiest puppy getting milk from close to breast and the weakest hardly getting milk.

Male calfs are butchered, so are male cocks. A species survives by and for the females. Human females? Most venomous of all.

Male tigers and lions are showcased in circus, not female animals. Wolves never get to follow human dictation because they are female societies.

It is not that you wanting to stay single makes your life any better(those dumb MGTOW). Anyone without a reproductive value is eliminated from all animals including Humans.

Keep watching Netflix on couch.

F. Reader’s Comments

Sir, a crucial thing is seems missing here. Since ages and even today, while discussing and talking about masculinity and femininity , the significant point of complementarity is least highlighted and mentioned. A vast majority is engaged in comparing the two in every way they can and doing this in extremities has simply ruined things.
The men and women were supposed to bring balance to every situation they are thrown at by creation as well as evolution. But this meaning of their existence was totally twisted. And with that genders are only competing and showing superiority over the other. Subordination of matriarchy to patriarchy or vice- e -versa is not the key but complementarity and parity is. Once this is on the mind of humans, I personally feel things would be a bit easier to handle.

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