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We often suffer in love. Our heart is broken, our emotions are crushed, our desires are dusted and our dreams are destroyed. We often end up blaming destiny or our partner, or both for the miseries in our life. We fail to live our dream love.
However, the reality is that, we know very little about ourselves, and about our partner. We have a false and superficial sense of compatibility. When in love, everything looks great, awesome, and extraordinary. Over a period of time, we become less accommodative. We fear losing our partner and therefore do not convey our desires accurately. We do not understand our partner well.
For a long-lasting relationship, it is important that we focus on knowing ourselves better. Unless we know ourselves, we can’t expect to know the other person. In order for a loving prolonged relationship, we must slowly build our emotions and mind in a way to build our love life.
This self-assessment would help you to evaluate the type of lover you are.
Lyfas can help you understand your psychophysiological signature associated with your love attitude scale and can help and guide you to get better at it, to be able to maintain and manage a long-lasting relationship. We work with several couples and have helped many couples to improve their intimacy and relationships with our scientific methods, monitoring, data-driven analytics, and simple lifestyle and mental model changes.
Intimacy
Your love attitude also affects your intimacy. If a physical and sexual relationship is the outcome of love, then it is like the expression. Intimacy is emotion. It is like happiness is the emotion and a smile is an expression. When you are smiling, you are not necessarily happy, and when you are happy, you don’t always smile. The core of a relationship is therefore intimacy. Whether you smile or not, you want to be happy. That is an internal state. Similarly, when you are in a relationship, you want to be intimate.
The intimacy index has significantly decreased amongst the adults and you would definitely want to check out the following article on Intimacy.
Relationship Anxiety
Do you know, the number one reason for any relationship to fail is relationship anxiety. This is insecurity about “whether my partner still loves me”, “whether my partner is cheating on me” and so on. Such psychology also leads to Generalized Anxiety Disorder(GAD), which has a significant effect on your overall health.
Did you know that Lyfas helps patients worldwide to overcome and cure Anxiety without medicines? If you are anxious about your relationship, then consider taking
the Generalized Anxiety Test(Free online Clinically-Validated Test)
Attachment Style
Irrespective of the type of lover you are, what matters at the end is the kind of partner you attract and the kind of intimate relationship you form with the partner. This purely depends upon your Attachment Style, which gets developed from childhood. Did you know that someone with a wrong attachment style always attracts the wrong partner?
It is therefore important for you to know your own attachment style so that you can fix the attachment style with the help of the Lyfas team and stop attracting the wrong partners. Test your attachment style with our
Romantic Attachment Style Test
Reference:
Hendrick, C. & Hendrick, S. (1986). A theory and method of love. Journal of Personality and Social
Psychology, 50, 392-402.
Accuracy
As per the study: The correlations between the score of Eros and Pragma styles and positive affect were positive and significant; while Manía and Ludus styles had positive and significant relationships with negative affect. Reliability by the method of internal consistency of the six factors found was from .62 to .85; while the stability coefficients for the test-retest method were .44 to .77. These results allow concluding that the LAS and their scores are valid and reliable to measure attitudes toward love in the college population of Lima.
Instructions:
Some of the items refer to a specific love relationship, while others refer to general attitudes and beliefs about love. Whenever possible, answer the questions with your current partner in mind. If you are not currently dating anyone, answer the questions with your most recent
partner in mind. If you have never been in love, answer in terms of what you think your responses would most likely be.
Interpretation
The scale that shows up at the top describes best your love style. All the other scales that are greater than zero are the traits you have. If you get your partner to also take the self-test, and if the positive scales are similar, then you have very high compatibility.
Disclaimer
This test is provided as a free tool, as part of our social responsibility to help you do your self-assessment and take better corrective measures in life. Acculi Labs and Lyfas takes no responsibility for the harm arising from taking the test, and won’t be liable for such claims. You are advised to take the help of a professional to interpret the test result and to make necessary changes in your life to make your love life better. This is an anonymous test, where you do not need to submit any personal details. However, your IP address and answers are logged.
By taking the test, you confirm that you have understood the disclaimer and agree to the terms and conditions.
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